On the verge of a decision

Meeting myself at the edge

It is safe by the edge. Jump and miracles can happen.

We don’t just find ourselves at crossroads. We arrive there when desire outgrows comfort. I am now standing at a moment in life that asks me:

Are you in or out?

Are you willing to play safe, or do you dare to live fully? Coaching was not a linear decision. It was an unfolding, a consequence of choosing to live deliberately.

This moment came during a particularly demanding phase in my architecture career. I loved designing buildings, the precision, the creativity, the tangible results, but I felt a growing disconnect.

Something was missing: the human connection, the rawness of individual growth, the unfolding of potential beyond blueprints and concrete: I was missing.

I began to ask myself difficult questions: Was I building spaces or building lives? Was I creating environments that inspired or merely structures that functioned?

It began with architecture. My background in architectural design taught me how to think in systems, patterns, and form. But I craved something more human than concrete. Architecture is about space, coaching is about holding space. Both require vision. Both require listening to what is not yet visible. And so, my path shifted.

Wolfpack Summits became the next expression of that desire—to build a movement that grows together:
to unite people through dialogue, vulnerability, and challenge. It was here that my why began to crystallize: I wanted to support people to live fully. Not someday. Not after a promotion. But now.

Yet, this decision is not without hesitation. I wrestled with fear—the uncertainty of leaving a known path, the vulnerability of holding space for others’ journeys, the question of my own readiness. It is a silent battle between comfort and calling.

And I could not ask others to do what I was not doing myself. So, I am now making a choice: to live the best journey of my life.

Not in a romanticized, flawless way, but in a grounded, embodied, conscious way. This is what coaching has asked of me: to become aligned, congruent, and responsible. Not just with clients, but with myself.

Committing to this path was a decision not just about vocation, but identity. It required facing parts of myself I had hidden behind roles, achievements, and certainty. It asked me to coach from who I am, not who I thought I needed to be. That was, and remains, the real climb.

 Until one is committed, there is hesitancy.
The moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.

W.H. Murray

SEE YOU AT THE TOP!

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